They watch it on weekends. In the 27 years since, Dorothy DeBolt and her second husband, Robert, have started an agency -- Aid to Adoption of Special Kids -- to promote and facilitate adoption of hard-to-place children, and they have made careers out of speaking on how they have raised their own family. "These children can come from some of the damnedest backgrounds, and they can adjust.". Swims like one, too.". And the local school system, the DeBolts say, supported what they were doing from the start. Two children, J.R. and Twe, died as adults. . ", "We believe deeply in God," she says. cemeteries found in Ankenytown, Knox County, Ohio, USA will be saved to your photo volunteer list. He is 51. "I don't mean to be Pollyana-ish . "It was a blind date. PIEDMONT Robert "Bob" Wesley DeBolt and his late wife, Dorothy, made it their mission in life to help as many children as they possibly could, whether as biological parents, stepparents or . You can always change this later in your Account settings. We didn't have much money, but we had other things. When Longoria was sentenced to serve life in prison without parole in 2012, he waived his right to appear, refusing to face DeBolt's family himself. Resend Activation Email, Please check the I'm not a robot checkbox, If you want to be a Photo Volunteer you must enter a ZIP Code or select your location on the map. The Kansas Supreme Court has upheld Adam Longoria's capital murder conviction for killing Alicia DeBolt. ", "Here's what she did to me," says Dorothy DeBolt with a grin. This account already exists, but the email address still needs to be confirmed. There is a problem with your email/password. The largest number of children in the house at one time was 16. Vernon, C. B. Leedy of Palmyra, Mrs. J. C. Hess of Fredericktown, Mrs. J. F. Amos of Fredericktown, Mrs. Fred Merrln of Mt. Some of their neighbors would throw rotten eggs and tomatoes at the yard and while yelling "to go back to where they came from." But most of them nowadayscontrary to days that I . At first, Longoria told investigators that he hadn't seen DeBolt since they first met in July and had been at a bar last night, but they were able to determine that he was involved after Longoria was arrested on vehicular burglary charges when he attempted to leave the state. She attended UC Berkeley, then became a professional pianist, joining a San Francisco combo that played boogie woogie and other popular music. Vernon, where she visited on many. Nor did she figure out which neighbor child might have made that errant call. The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. Failed to remove flower. Through the years, they adopted 10 more children to increase their family size to 20 kids. We've heard a lot of truly heartbreaking stories about murder, but it's always especially tragic when we find out about a child who lost their life and in this case, we're talking about thekilling of Kansas cheerleader Alicia DeBolt. The Sigma Chi Fraternity, of which he was a member, honored him as a Significant Sig.. I fell in love on the first date, Dorothy told The Times in 1988. Just click the "Edit page" button at the bottom of the page or learn more in the Biography submission guide. The couple, who founded an Oakland-based nonprofit adoption agency for special needs children, taught their own to be self-reliant and to live independently. French soccer legend dies at 89; scored record 13 goals in 1958 World Cup, Obituary: Richard Roth, 83, was former vice mayor of Alameda, Olympic gold medalist Bob Richards dies; was first athlete featured on a Wheaties box, Rapid demise of Dilbert no surprise to some who were watching. Seconds later, she said aloud: Oh my God, we dont have a kid named Jennifer.. It was a story Dorothy Atwood DeBolt enjoyed telling, one that any harried parent of young children might find somewhat familiar. Can I go to the playground after school?, DeBolt replied: Sure, honey, but be home by 5, and hung up. "With my first husband, we had four healthy children born to us in four years," Dorothy DeBolt says. She told me about how horrible the family and the children were first treated when they got to Piedmont. She also found little hate notes in her mailbox: "Why don't you take these little bastard children and move out? 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. This browser does not support getting your location. Edit a memorial you manage or suggest changes to the memorial manager. To use this feature, use a newer browser. ", "We're not martyrs or saints," says Robert DeBolt. Thanks for using Find a Grave, if you have any feedback we would love to hear from you. To view a photo in more detail or edit captions for photos you added, click the photo to open the photo viewer. Remove advertising from a memorial by sponsoring it for just $5. Want to know more? "Now, when we left home, it was 20," says Robert DeBolt straight-faced, "but it might be more.". "But his greatest handicap was his lack of self-esteem," says Dorothy DeBolt. She said, 'I've fixed him up with a lot of nice ladies, but what he wants is someone intelligent. Thanks for your help! If she'd said he wanted a sexy broad, I would have said 'No way.' This account has been disabled. "God knows we've had enough chances.". "We were all working," she said. Try again. Are you sure that you want to delete this photo? IRS delays tax deadline for Bay Area, but California hasnt followed: What should you do? "No one pays any attention to her," says Robert DeBolt. The email does not appear to be a valid email address. She looked like a seal with her stumps flapping. Her mother, from Sweden, and her father, from the Netherlands, owned several Bay Area restaurants. Learn about how to make the most of a memorial. subject of two films, including an Oscar-winning documentary. Still, Longoria continued contacting Brown, though DeBolt questioned him when she started getting text messages from Brown herself. Mrs. DoBolt Was 55 years of age and was quite well known In Mt. While serving, he married his first wife, Audre Kellogg, in 1958, a union that produced Doni. As lawyers explained in court documents, Longoria and DeBolt first crossed paths at a birthday party in July 2010, and stayed in contact after he told her to let him know that she'd made it home safely. Your account has been locked for 30 minutes due to too many failed sign in attempts. Born Dec. 29, 1923, in San Francisco, Dorothy was the elder of two children of Esther and Michael Nortier. Are you sure that you want to report this flower to administrators as offensive or abusive? Vernon, where she visited on many occasions She is Survived by her, husband Bryant C DeBolt of Palmyra, her mother, Mrs. Lavlna Leedy of Akenytown, and by the following children:Mrs. Paul Reed of, Oklahoma, Paul DoBolt of near Palmyra, Mrs. Llllle Gregg of Fredericktown, Ethel at home. At the time, Longoria was dating a woman named Eva Brown. The DeBolts later adopted their 20th child, Reynaldo, a Mexican street kid with a paralyzed leg who was part of a sequel. The family included adopted children who were paraplegics and others afflicted by polio, spina bifida, paralysis and blindness. I might have been 35 when I took a close look at myself. Get Morning Report and other email newsletters, Robert and Dorothy DeBolt in October of 1977. C. O. Miller of Mt. But I tell my kids, 'You're so much luckier than I was.' There are no babysitters, and a cleaning woman comes only occasionally. You are only allowed to leave one flower per day for any given memorial. Yet DeBolt, who died Feb. 24, and her husband did, remarkably, raise 20 children six biological and 14 adopted. Thank you for fulfilling this photo request. Use the links under See more to quickly search for other people with the same last name in the same cemetery, city, county, etc. There was an error deleting this problem. Two months later, with nine children, she met Robert DeBolt. DeBolt's story is featured on the Investigation Discovery showWeb of LiesIn an episode called "Be Right Back. They began by adopting unwanted children -- those left in hospitals or shuttled through foster homes. Anyone who would treat a 14-year-old child the way he did, hes not a man. Bob DeBolt said Monday that his wife was moved to adopt partly by her faith Thank you, God was posted about the house although she was not overly religious. The sponsor of a memorial may add an additional. They made no special accommodations in their two-story home in Piedmont, near Oakland, mostly because they were cash-strapped, they said, but each child, with encouragement from the others, learned to navigate through it. We decided to show it by adopting children.". Both wedding bands are inscribed: "Thank you, God. Mrs. DoBolt Was 55 years of age and was quite well known In Mt. Along with her husband, Dorothy DeBolts survivors include her children, Mike, Mimi, Stephanie, Noel, Kim, Marty, Melanie, Doni, Ly, Dat, Trang, Phong, Tich, Anh, Reynaldo, Sunee, Karen and Wendy, 27 grandchildren, six great-grandchildren, and her brother, Art Nortier. Failed to delete memorial. Bob DeBolt, an acclaimed public speaker, recipient of numerous awards and honorary degrees, recognized by the U.S. Congress and four presidents and once appointed by President Jimmy Carter to the President's Committee on Youth and Families, died Jan. 24 in El Cajon at age 84. The remaining 14 were adopted. I remember my mother -- she's Swedish -- used to say to me, 'Doora,' " she says, mimicking her mother's Swedish accent, " 'you haf to learn to listen to God through yoor ea-hers, not through your stoo-mach.' He would only do things like that for others. As it grew, the DeBolt family gained a measure of celebrity, too. 11 Strict Rules That Elon Musk Makes His Girlfriends & Wives Follow, Justin Bieber Suspected As The Father Of Kourtney Kardashian's Son Reign (Instead Of Scott Disick), Why Kate Moss Was 'Scared' & 'Couldn't Get Out Of Bed For Weeks' After Working With Mark Wahlberg. The Democratic banner., January 20, 1922, Page PAGE THREE, Image 3MRS. To that end, they founded Adopt A Special Kid (AASK), which in 2015 became part of Lilliput Childrens Services. My head said, 'No.' Flowers added to the memorial appear on the bottom of the memorial or here on the Flowers tab. Surprisingly, it worked. Please ensure you have given Find a Grave permission to access your location in your browser settings. (However, somone recently sent them one as a gift. Through AASK, the DeBolts placed more than 3,500 children into loving homes. One, a girl who was blind, battered and abandoned when she was adopted by the DeBolts at 4, had been named The Child Who Never Smiles by orphanage workers in Korea. The youngest child was 3 at the time. One child they adopted together was J.R. -- 10 years old, wheelchair-bound, blind, 40 pounds overweight from having been treated as a vegetable and stuffed with food in one temporary home after another. We felt the need to say 'Hey, God, thank you, we're lucky.' ). Why would you do such a dumb thing?' An email has been sent to the person who requested the photo informing them that you have fulfilled their request, There is an open photo request for this memorial. They were even the subject of an Academy Award-winning 1977 documentary, Who Are the DeBolts, and Where Did They Get 19 Kids? Bob DeBolt also was named Father of the Year by The Fathers Day/Mothers Day Council Inc. in 1981. "I was working part-time, teaching piano and speaking. Started on 4/20/2021. Drag images here or select from your computer for Susannah Evangeline Susie Leedy DeBolt memorial. Sorry! It was the Vietnam war and I had these Amerasian children." ". It carries a $50,000 grant and honors "an individual, who through his or her own positive mental attitude, has overcome adversity and gone on to make significant contributions to the betterment of humanity." cemeteries found within kilometers of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. They have a folder of material on themselves and a list of suggested speech topics: "Love, Laughter, and Twenty Kids," "From Burn-Out to Bonfire," "Parenting in the '80s," "Society Says 'Handicapped' -- We Say 'Challenged.' Story soon pic.twitter.com/gW2mpqsRmp, Sherman Smith (@sherman_news) March 6, 2015. "What she really fixed me up with was a sexy, intelligent woman," says Robert DeBolt. This relationship is not possible based on lifespan dates. You have chosen this person to be their own family member. Police found DeBolt's body after employees at an asphalt plant noticed what they thought was a burned mannequin surrounded by flies. Close this window, and upload the photo(s) again. After Atwood died in 1963, Dorothy took in two more both disabled youngsters from Vietnam. At Longoria's sentencing, DeBolt's family admitted that she"had a past" and would often go missinbut that did not justify what Longoria had done not by a longshot. There have been two films made about the DeBolts -- one was the Academy Award-winning "Who Are the DeBolts -- And Where Did They Get 19 Kids?" (She plays marimba.) PIEDMONT Robert Bob Wesley DeBolt and his late wife, Dorothy, made it their mission in life to help as many children as they possibly could, whether as biological parents, stepparents or adoptive parents, as their nationally renowned family ultimately grew to 20 children. It is a large, old, three-story house. Though he flirted with her, DeBolt told Longoria she only wanted to be friends, though at the timehe told her he was only 25. But there also are problems that more typical households have: Everyone must have assigned chores or nothing gets done. My stomach said, 'yes.' ", She is 58. "She's there a few hours and her eyes glaze over," says Dorothy DeBolt. Later, through an investigation, they were able to determine that Longoria had raped and then killed DeBolt before pouring gas on her body and setting it on fire. On his left hand is a gold wedding band that matches his wife's. All photos appear on this tab and here you can update the sort order of photos on memorials you manage. Susie DoBolt, wife of B C. DeBolt, died at her home near Palmyra Monday noon of a complication of diabetes. To add a flower, click the Leave a Flower button. "She didn't marry me," he says. Three Bay Area men, including justice reform activist, plead guilty in Norteo RICO murder case, Californias hardest to book campground isnt in a famous park. ", Their family has been a success, they say, but it has not been without problems. . I don't know how my mother put up with me. Try again later. It is a large, old, three-story house. She was never seen alive again. ", "Would you believe," says Robert DeBolt, leaning forward in his chair, "we're on the Gray Line tour? The phone rang one day as the busy mother raced around her home, getting ready for an out-of-town trip and wrapping up housework before her kids got home. Kansas Supreme Court affirms capital murder conviction of Adam Longoria in death of 14-year-old Alicia DeBolt. Known to find good in everyone and humor in many situations, DeBolt is survived by 18 of his 20 children plus 27 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. cemeteries found within miles of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. Learn more about merges. You can customize the cemeteries you volunteer for by selecting or deselecting below. I told her, 'No more.' This flower has been reported and will not be visible while under review. "We felt very blessed. Today, he is 18, walking with braces and crutches, slimmed down, in 10th grade, an honor student and secretary of the student body. ", On Robert DeBolt's right hand is a large, oval turquoise ring. All photos uploaded successfully, click on the Done button to see the photos in the gallery. Family members linked to this person will appear here. For the next two months, he would continue texting her, attempting to get her into his car. Try again later. These are either the son of Abraham and a second wife, or Mary did not die in 1748. Add to your scrapbook. New Details On 14-Year-Old Kansas Cheerleader Murdered By Adam Longoria, Woman And Four Kids Killed By Husband; Weeks Later He Was Found Driving Around With Her Body In Van, Rapper Baby Soulja Charged With Murder What We Know, Longoria was sentenced to serve life in prison, Groom Invites His Nephews To His Wedding But Excludes Brother's Stepdaughter Her Mom Is Debating Whether To Attend, What Jon Hamm Says Changed His Mind About Marriage After Swearing It Off During His 18-Year Relationship With Jennifer Westfeldt, Man Insists Landlords Should Get Tipped By Tenants If They're Going To Tip Baristas, How Did Dr. Amie Hardwick Die? She answered and a child said: Mom, this is Jennifer. Actually, only seven of those 20 live in the DeBolt home in Piedmont, Calif., near San Francisco. And they try to talk about the problems. ". Longoria did not show up to his own sentencing. Many of those they adopted had physical or emotional disabilities and most though not all were from other countries. based on information from your browser. Our website services, content and products are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. She is tall and slim, with high cheekbones. ), They always eat dinner together -- at two tables pushed together when necessary. It the story of a woman, excuse me, a lady, Dorothy DeBolt, born in 1903, who had a heart bigger than a watermelon. The Democratic banner., January 20, 1922, Page PAGE THREE, Image 3 MRS. SUSIE DEBOLT DIES AT PALMYRA Mrs. Susie DoBolt, wife of B C. DeBolt, died at her home near Palmyra Monday noon of a complication of diabetes. Dorothy DeBolt died in 2013 at 89. Aside from his passion for helping children, those who knew Bob DeBolt recalled his love for green chiles. Hes not. pic.twitter.com/JisVuiFndO, kansasdotcom (@kansasdotcom) March 6, 2015. After the DeBolts were married, they moved into the Piedmont house, with Robert bringing his 10-year-old-daughter, Doni. The blended family grew, with each new child learning to contribute to the household and support the others. Dorothy DeBolt received the 1982 "Endow a Dream" Award from the W. Clement and Jessie V. Stone Foundation. Oops, some error occurred while uploading your photo(s). Many of the kids of the DeBolts were from other countries and some had severe disabilities. Which memorial do you think is a duplicate of Susannah DeBolt (57374100)? Please consult your doctor before taking any action. One was born without legs and arms. After creating the Sidney Dearing website, a woman who had moved from Berkeley to Piedmont in the 70s was eager to talk to me but not knowing how to find me, went to our Chief of Police in Piedmont (2021) asking for my contact information. "We took out the television set about seven years ago -- that's what caused friction and arguing," said Dorothy DeBolt. Please try again later. "I'm ungainfully employed." "It has seven bedrooms, but more importantly it has six bathrooms," says Robert DeBolt. One is from Robert DeBolt's previous marriage. . (Staff Archivess). Resend Activation Email. Failed to report flower. She invited me over to her house for sweet tea and to tell me about the DeBolt family. Arleen Ng staff 6/17/00 Tribune CueLy DeBolt of Berkeley has a talk with her adoptive father Robert, 69, at Temescal Park in Oakland during their family reunion. Found more than one record for entered Email, You need to confirm this account before you can sign in. ", The DeBolts take turns telling anecdotes about the children. "She was a doll," he says. Try again later. ", Dorothy DeBolt already had given birth to five children and adopted two Amerasian children when her first husband, an insurance broker, died. 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